Give Moms a (Coffee) Break! - theHumm May 2020
Give Moms a (Coffee) Break! - theHumm May 2020
By Sarah Kerr
Well, to be honest, I didn’t think I had it in me. We recently moved back to the Valley from downtown Toronto, and while I saw all these amazing homeschool moms, and was often evangelized by them about how I should consider it, I always thought “bless your heart — but there’s no f-ing way I could do that without losing my mind!”
Six weeks into homeschooling, I have to say: I know myself well. My adrenaline is running out. I’ve tried ALL the coping mechanisms for my personality (Enneagram Type 7) — I’ve set up Zoom hangs and birthday parties, made schedules and calendars and have themed our life into a perpetual summer camp! Check out my hilarious kids on our “spa day”. And it has all helped. But if I’m honest, I’m tired! I need a freaking coffee break! And for some reason, my kids don’t understand that I’m entitled to two coffee breaks AND a lunch hour as per Ontario labour law. I mean, come on — you’re 2 and 5 years old now — get it together little people!
And I know, you might think I’m annoying because I am blessed to be home with my littles — and you’re right. I totally am. CERB is saving my coffee budget and our butts. But as my girl Brene Brown says, “there’s enough love and empathy to go around that we don’t have to compare our suffering. We can, however, piss and moan with a little perspective” (Listen to her brilliance on the topic here: brenebrown.com/podcast/brene-on-comparative-suffering-the-50-50-myth-and-settling-the-ball .
So in order to keep things in perspective and put more love and empathy in the world, I’ve come up with a couple of ideas. First, kids: here’s a hyper-local #DestinationAlmonte gift guide to help you plan to give your mama a break this Mother’s Day. Whatever she’s going through — she deserves it. Second, fellow mamas, here’s a way for us to love on the single moms this Mother’s Day by delivering a coffee break to their door. Enjoy!
#DestinationAlmonte Mother’s Day Guide:
Flowers from Acanthus Floral & Botanicals. They’re back! After such heartbreak when they initially had to close, we are all so relieved that our favourite floral boutique is up and running with online orders for the big day. Call or order online ahead of time to ensure they have what you want — Jay suggests ordering by May 4 or 5 for best selection. Bouquets start from $25-$30, and they offer free delivery in town or pickup. acanthus-floral-botanical-ltd.myshopify.com .
Latte in bed from Equator Drive-Through. Here’s my favourite budget-friendly, high-impact gift. Jump out of bed early and run to the Equator Drive-Through that opens at 8am for your mom’s favourite hot drink. Make sure there are no lingering littles to wake mom up before you’re back to deliver it hot in bed. #CoffeeGoals
North Market Brunch. Of course, you can try to DIY a nice breakfast, but after the 6,498 meals that we’ve cooked these last weeks, don’t mess up the kitchen on Mom’s big day. North Market has you covered with gourmet prix fixe options: quiche & latkes or a smoked salmon platter with bubbly. You will all benefit from this gift: northmarketalmonte.com/mothers-day .
Cheerfully Made Virtual Craft Market. Finally, this is the best gift ever. You let mom do the work of buying her own gift while supporting amazing local makers. Emily says “admission is FREE and pants are optional” — my kind of shopping! Just give mom a budget and let her loose here: facebook.com/events/s/cheerfully-made-virtual-craft-/2493391944218976/?ti=icl
Mill Street Books. Naturally I can’t leave off a new book from the Mother’s Day Gift list. For those who know me, I’m a bit of a bibliophile. But given the weight of the world, I suggest asking Mary for something silly and light. Knock a cookbook off your mom’s wish-list; again, you’ll be grateful you did. Order online at millstreetbooks.com or call 256-9090.
Mother’s Day Coffee Break Delivery in Mississippi Mills:
Nominate your mom, daughter, sister, friend, or teacher who is doing this pandemic parenting solo. All Mississippi Mills single moms will receive a Mother’s Day Coffee Break that includes their favourite Equator drink and a treat from our little volunteer crew. Just email sarah.schoolbox@gmail.com with the mama’s name, contact, favourite Equator drink and a 1-liner note of inspiration. Our drivers will “distance deliver” to her doorstep on Mother’s Day.
Being a mom is really hard under normal circumstances. Let’s give ourselves and each other a coffee break this Mother’s Day. You’re all doing great. Happy Mother’s Day.
— Sarah Kerr is a Valley girl passionate about lots of things, especially her family and community, and spreading love and books (and the love of good books) all around. She commutes to Treaty 3 and Nicaragua for work, but you’ll find her writing in a coffee shop around the friendly town or dancing in her friends’ barn, usually with a kid or two in tow. This is her little column.
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On This Month’s Cover - theHumm May 2020
A veritable garden of art!
(clockwise from top left)
Claire Jacobs, clairejfineart.com
Sally Hansen, ...more
Dec 6 - 7 Chocolate Party
Dec 6 Light Up The Night
Dec 7 Pakenham Santa Claus Parade
Dec 7 Almonte Holiday Farmers' Market
Dec 7 - 8 Christmas At Pine Ridge!
Dec 7 Nick of Time Artisan Show
Dec 7 Rock & Roll Christmas - The Piano Men
Dec 7 - 8 Holly Jolly Art Show
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- Come to the Merrickville Makers Market!
- 10th Anniversary Show at Sivarulrasa Gallery!
- Library After Dark A Night of Music with Jeremy Lyall
- Showing the Local Love for the Holidays!
- I’m Not Imelda Marcos